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On Monday, March 2, 2026, Debra Jean Pabilonia, age 69, of Youngstown, passed away at Hospice House in Poland. She was born on June 17, 1956, in Buffalo, NY, to Thomas and Sandra (Sullivan) Featsent.
Debra is survived by her husband, Harold E May Sr of Youngstown; children, Karl (Kristen) Toy of Salem, Thomas Toy of Austintown, Christina Smart of Niles; step-children, Harold E May Jr of Niles, Scott (Samantha Black) May of Canfield, Louis May of Warren; grandchildren, Kayla Smart, Nate Fowler, Armonie Perez, Mya Magnatta, Logan Toy, Channing Toy, Chase Toy, Leland Toy, Jordan Nagle; great-grandchildren, Giovanni Perez and Mia Louise Smart; brothers, Rick Featsent of Columbiana, Tom (Joy) Featsent of CA; "sister," Devenna (Jim) Davis of Youngstown; as well as many nieces, nephews, and cousins.
Besides her parents, Debra was also preceded in death by her sisters, Peggy Featsent and Elsie Featsent.
Debra dedicated approximately 20 years of her life as a school bus driver for MRDD before retiring. She found joy in gardening and took pride in maintaining large gardens. Debra also had a fondness for Dunkin' Donuts coffee, which brought her simple pleasures throughout her days.
Arrangement by Cremation & Funeral Service by Gary S Silvat Inc. Share memories and send condolences by visiting cremateohio.com.
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